Learn how to effectively deal with death, your own an those you love.
Dear Friend,
Life is an extraordinary gift, and every morning as we open our eyes to a new day, we are presented with a precious opportunity to make it count. The truth is, none of us can escape the inevitability of mortality, but what truly matters is how we choose to live our lives before that moment arrives.
You may wonder why you should even contemplate mortality and the passage of time. The answer lies in recognizing the losses we may experience if we don't fully embrace the present and make the most of our days. Let's explore the profound insights shared by renowned author and speaker, Dr. Denis Waitley, in his timeless wisdom, the "Mortality Waitley Wisdom Seven Truths."
First and foremost, imagine waking up one day and realizing that you have missed out on the joys of life. The laughter, the love, the experiences, the sharing, and the fulfillment that could have enriched your existence. It's a poignant reminder to live each day with purpose and passion.
Consider the deep desire within you to watch your great-grandchildren graduate from high school, with their parents proudly supporting their college dreams. It's a vision that captures the essence of generational love and continuity. By embracing the present and making the most of your time, you secure the opportunity to witness these extraordinary milestones.
To ensure peace of mind for yourself and your loved ones, taking care of your finances and making necessary arrangements becomes crucial. Adequate insurance updated wills, and trusts bring a sense of security, allowing you to focus on the moments that truly matter.
Moreover, we must acknowledge that life is a game of choice with no timeouts, no substitutions, and no instant replays. It's an ongoing journey where the clock is always running. By living well and playing our best during each day, we lay the foundation for a remarkable existence, qualifying us for the playoffs and whatever awaits us beyond.
The quest for immortality has captivated humanity for ages, but the truth remains unchanged—no one has discovered the secret of eternal life. While efforts to prolong our existence continue, it is essential to invest equal energy in living passionately, finding fulfillment, and leaving a positive impact on the world around us.
As you contemplate mortality, think about the distinction between biological longevity and quality of life. It's not merely about the beating heart and functioning brain but also about cultivating curiosity, energy, and pure joy in living. By retaining the essence of youthfulness, you can approach life with excitement and embrace the unknown without fear.
Consider the Missoula Demonstration Project, which highlighted the strong desire people feel to settle matters with their families when the end-of-life approaches. Forgiving old grudges, resolving financial concerns, and fostering open communication are integral to achieving peace and leaving a legacy of love.
Imagine the transformation in the life of Howard, who, despite his difficult health problems, rekindled his happiness by revisiting the memories that brought him the greatest joy. His grandson's questions allowed him to escape the present circumstances and move into a different reality, discovering a renewed sense of purpose.
Don't wait until it's too late to map out the high points of your life, the moments you're proud of, and those you regret. It's important to fill in the areas of your life's story that still await exploration, reflection, and growth. By creating your personal history today, you can appreciate the significance of each moment and build a legacy that truly resonates.
Finally, let's remember the wisdom of Thomas Jefferson, who wrote of the ripeness of time for death and the importance of making room for future generations. As long as we have a purpose and something to contribute, we have every reason to live.
Warm regards,
Denis Waitley
